Saturday, July 20, 2013

Gypsy



Gypsy

      Last night, I was minding my own business, playing my bevy of Facebook games, when Gypsy, who had been snoozing a foot away on the pink towel-covered Kit-n-Box stretched-walked over to my lap to finish catnapping. Whenever she lies down on my lap after being on the ‘Box, I say something to the effect that she has come all the way over to my lap from the Kit-n-Box. Gypsy purrs her response to my comical statement. 
 
By far, Gypsy is the cat who purrs the most (and the loudest) in my household. While I’m typing this paragraph, she is on my lap, purring and kneading. Because of her sharp claws (and my unwillingness to trim them), I always have a towel on my lap when Gypsy comes to visit, so, here and now, she is contentedly lying on my lap, trying to get comfy as she pushes herself so that she is right up against my left arm; she prefers to rest her head on my left arm.
 
 


     Gypsy will turn 13 years old on August 3rd. I adopted her in the spring of 2001 from a classmate (during my graduate studies years). My classmate rescued Gypsy from a neighbor who treated her poorly. As a result, by the time Gypsy turned six months old, she had already had a litter of kittens because of the neighbor’s mistreatment. My classmate rescued Gypsy afterwards. I think the cruel neighbor had already gotten rid of Gypsy’s kittens, but I just don’t know the specifics there (and I’m not sure I want to know). My classmate paid the vet costs, and Gypsy was spayed and had all her required vaccinations. She told me she could not keep Gypsy and was looking for a good home for her. Then, she asked me if I wanted to take Gypsy home. When it comes to cats, I’m a pushover, so I told my classmate that I would adopt Gypsy.

     I remember the day I brought Gypsy home. My classmate and I met in the parking lot of a toy store that was right off the expressway (easier to meet there than try to find my classmate’s home). I brought along Moky’s cat carrier (sans Moky), and Gypsy rode quietly home in the carrier. When I put the cat carrier on the floor of my home, Moky sniffed at the carrier and then at Gypsy and hissed and growled. He was not very happy to have to share me with Gypsy. I put the cat carrier in my bedroom and closed the door. I wanted Gypsy to adjust to her new surroundings without Moky’s presence. Then, I let Gypsy walk out of the carrier. I laid down on my bed, and Gypsy jumped on the bed and snuggled up next to me. We napped together for a while.

     After that first day, Gypsy tried to play with Moky, but he usually didn’t want to have anything to do with her. Moky made it a point to circumvent Gypsy whenever he had to walk from one end of the room to the other. Gypsy would bat at Moky if he came near enough to her, and she seemed to enjoy teasing Moky just to get him to whine. She still does that on occasion. While Moky is trying to jump down from my desk, Gypsy swipes at him. I usually tell her that Moky doesn’t need her help.

     Gypsy is also the cat that sleeps the most. A well-known fact about cats is that, on average, they sleep about 16 hours a day. That is definitely true of Gypsy. Her favorite sleeping spots are the plastic bin by the living room window, the L-shape part of my desk, the Kit-n-Box, the old backpack, the bottom shelf beside the computer desk, various spots in my bedroom, on my lap, and next to me while I’m sleeping. Daytime hours are snoozing hours for most cats, but Gypsy sleeps all hours of the day and night. When she’s awake, she’s eating or using the litter box or frolicking with the other cats, but her waking moments are just that – moments. Generally, most people think of a catnap as a short period of time, but if I measured a catnap based on how long Gypsy sleeps at any one time, I’d say a catnap is anywhere from three to five hours. I’m willing to bet that a catnap is longer than what most people think it is.








 


      Gypsy is self-entertaining. After Gypsy has a snack or sip of milk (lactose-free, of course), she walks upstairs and runs in the hallway. When I hear her footfalls (pawfalls), I think that more than one cat is up there, that maybe she’s chasing Stormy, or Stormy is chasing her, but when I survey the living room and I see both Stormy and Moky, I realize that only Gypsy is making all that noise. I’m amazed she can make that much noise because, of the three cats, she is the smallest. Her small size does not hinder her ability to make a lot of noise. She has these bursts of energy that cause heads to turn (mostly mine). I have no doubt that the catnaps fuel her runs. 




      Gypsy is sometimes mischievous. She enjoys teasing Moky and Stormy, and she welcomes a chase and sometimes initiates that chase. She can be very silly and playful. She gets this look in her eyes when I play with her. This look is different than the feed-me stare and definitely different than the sleepy look. When I move my hand in front of her or touch her tail when she is in a playful mood, she looks downward at my hand, and I can tell that at any moment, she’s going to bat at my hand. When she becomes silly, she is often lying down and putting her front paws over her head. When she is in a box (Gypsy loves boxes!) and in a playful mood, she will turn around in the box. Sometimes, I tap on the outside of the box because I know it will make her turn around in it. She uses her back paws to start the process, and she will turn around several times in the box. It’s quite a hilarious sight to behold.




      Sometimes, Gypsy likes to play with the Crazy Circle or the catnip ball. The Crazy Circle is a round plastic toy that contains a ball that cannot be removed by the cats. When the ball is batted by a paw (or my finger), it runs around the circle until it stops on its own or until a paw (or finger) stops it. Gypsy plays more with the Crazy Circle than the other two cats do. the catnip ball is kind of a heavy ball that’s a little bigger than a golf ball. It is made purely of catnip. The ball’s surface is very hard, but it can be picked apart by the cats. Occasionally, I find bits of catnip that I know came from that ball because the pieces I find are hard. When Gypsy attacks the catnip ball, she bats at it and chases it (typical cat behavior).

     Like Moky, Gypsy talks, but, according to the vet, this is normal for older cats. She talks to me when she wants me to give her a snack, and she talks to me to wake me up from my night’s sleep so that I will feed her (usually breakfast). She also talks to herself. Usually, when she mutters to herself, she is waiting for me to feed her. However, I’ve noticed, too, that she talks a great deal upstairs while I’m downstairs. I imagine she is complaining that the litter boxes are dirty, so I do my best to keep them clean.

     Unlike Moky, Gypsy’s meowing is soft. Moky bellows while Gypsy softly squeaks. Still, I answer her when she talks. Normally, Gypsy’s meows are soft, but when I take her to the vet, she has a special meow she reserves just for the ride over. This meow is much different than her normal voice; for starters, it’s louder. This meow is anxious and worried. She doesn’t know where she’s going, but she knows, in her head, that it can’t be good because we never go anywhere except to the vet (with the exception of moving her from my old apartment to my newer one). Like Moky, she is quiet on our return home. Unlike Moky, Gypsy only meows on the way to the vet. Once we get into the office area, she is quiet again. I think she is still anxious and worried, but she’s not vocal about it like Moky is.

     When I had to take Moky, Gypsy, and Stormy to the vet for their FLV tests last November (2012), my friend helped me. She rode in the car with me. The three cats, in their respective carriers, were in the backseat. My friend told me she had no idea that Gypsy could make the loud meows she was making on the ride to the vet. I reassured her that Gypsy makes these same sounds each time I take her to the vet. As far as cats and people are concerned, anxiety and worry make everyone talk differently.

     Gypsy is my moocher. She is the cat that stares at me when it’s nearly time to eat. She is the cat that will sit directly in front of me while I’m eating a meal or a snack, stare at me, and open and close her mouth (I call it the fish-mouth method because she opens and closes her mouth ever so slightly like a fish does when it is breathing) in anticipation that I’m going to give her a piece of whatever I’m eating. Most of the time, I don’t share my meals or snacks with her. However, when I’m eating roasted chicken, I do usually give her a few tiny pieces of it (all three cats get some of that chicken).



      Gypsy has a built-in meal clock. Like clockwork, she comes to me or sits nearby and stares at me when it is almost supper time. She doesn’t utter a “word” or do the fish-mouth thing; she just sits and stares until I notice her. Sometimes, she lies on my lap and purrs. At this moment, I am reminded of a saying, “There is no snooze button on a cat who wants breakfast.” Sometimes, that saying is true, especially when I think of Gypsy’s meal clock.

     Gypsy is a patient cat . . . to a point. Don’t we all have patience to a point? When she’s waiting to be fed, she is fairly patient about the wait. Sometimes, she falls asleep while waiting for me to feed her. Wow! That’s true patience! I realize that not very many people would consider falling asleep to signify patience, but I think that is what sleeping is, in this respect; if we can fall asleep while waiting, we are continuing to practice that patience in a less troubling way. People who have lost patience become troubled and irritated. There is no sleeping for impatient people because they want whatever it is now. Occasionally, my cats lose their patience with me. When Gypsy tires of waiting and wants something to be done, she bugs me by pawing me and meowing her concerns. If she can wait, she does so quietly.

     Gypsy is the middle “child” in my family. She is perfectly content to live with me and her siblings, and I am perfectly happy to oblige. Even though her nemesis is Stormy, she doesn’t mind Stormy lying next to her. When the two of them are fighting, it doesn’t last very long. They, for the most part, get along with each other. I think Moky does like his sisters even though, at times, he seems irritated with them. I guess we are just one medium-sized happy family.


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